Have you ever had a time in your life where you’ve said to yourself releivingly, ‘i’ve found myself’?
Most people care about who they are and what they are going to become, yet some people have trouble comprehending why they should ask themselves such deep questions. We are all different but we have a common desire, that is to feel important or valued by someone or something. The mere fact of how we reproduce, seems to show us, that we Humans, were designed to share life together, yet it doesn’t feel like it sometimes.
Our personal values and beliefs shape our point of view, whether we are fully aware of our actual inner beliefs is another question. I’ve noticed the more we think we beleive in something, the more we change our appearance to suit that belief, its like we masqurade with that belief in our public lives, but our hearts are often governed by deeper beliefs that have subtley formed in us as we grew and experienced different feelings. We tend to base a belief on a specific experience, yet at the same time deny it, as we don’t realize why it affected us and changed us, it just did.
If you look at your own history and say you have no regrets, you are either special or are especially self-decieved. I guess that is determined by the degree of openness you have in your relationships, the less our friends know about us, the more regrets we will be suseptible to. Let me warn you not to throw your pearls to the swine(in regards to sharing your personal thoughts to another), its simply letting the people who are willing to care for you, to do so.